Babies are experiencing the world for the first time, and a pacifier might seem unfamiliar. Be patient and persistent; while your baby may notimmediatelywarm up to it, consistent efforts couldresult inpositive results.

Selecting the right moment to introduce a pacifier is crucial. Instead of offering it during moments of distress, present it when your baby is calm and content. This approach increases their curiosity and willingness to explore something new.

Avoid introducing the pacifier when your baby is hungry. Instead, present it after feedings when they are full and content. This increases the likelihood of them viewing the pacifier as a source of comfort rather than an alternative to feeding.

If your baby seems hesitant, try coating the pacifier with a small amount of breast milk or formula. This familiar taste can encourage them to investigate and ultimately accept the pacifier.

For babies who prefer the real deal, mimic breastfeeding by swiftly swapping the pacifier after feeding. This “bait and switch” technique can catch your baby by surprise, making it more likely for them to accept the pacifier without hesitation.

Babies have preferences when it comes to pacifiers.If your baby rejects a particular pacifier,don’tbe discouraged.Try outdifferent shapes, sizes, and materials until you find the one that suits your little one’s preferences.

A gentle tug on the pacifier, once your baby has taken it into their mouth, may trigger a natural resistance response. This reverse psychology can encourage them to suck on the pacifier to maintain control.

It’s a common (and usually temporary) phase - even for babies who previously loved their pacifier.

There are a few possible reasons:

• Teething discomfort can make sucking unpleasant.

• Growth spurts or developmental changes may shift their soothing preferences. Read more about the different developmental leaps a baby experience.

• Sore gums, stuffy noses or simply being overstimulated can all affect their willingsness.

To gently try and reintroduce the pacifier:

• You can gently explore the steps we’ve shared above to see what feels right for your little one.

• Cuddle first. Offer the pacifier while holding baby close, so it feels safe and familiar.

• Use it during nap time. Try offering it when baby is drowsy, not wide awake.

• Let baby explore it. Place it near their mouth during playtime without pressure.

• Keep it close to you. Tuck the pacifier in your shirt for a bit so it carries your scent.

• Be patient. Give baby time to get curious - sometimes they just need space to try again.

Most importantly, stay calm and patient. Your baby may simply need a little time - and your steady reassurance - to come back to it.

It’s very common for babies to prefer the breast, especially when they’re looking for more than just nourishment. Breastfeeding offers comfort, connection, and a sense of security. If your baby is refusing the pacifier and only wants to nurse, they may simply be following their natural instinct to feel close and soothed.

Try these tips:

• Try the pacifier when baby is sleepy after nursing
• Offer the pacifier with skin-to-skin comfort
• Use a pacifier that mimics the mothers breast

With gentle consistency and a little time, these tips can often help ease the challenge.